How to Better Self-Love (Part 1-6)

How to Better Self-Love – Pt. 1

Welcome to the Agape Center for Spiritual Living blog. This is the place where we’ll dive in deeper and explore different areas of life to help you discover how you can learn to better self-love. We’re starting with a topic that’s near and dear to my heart. It has been a tremendous part of my life. I’m talking about relationships.

Relationship is a word that means so much to so many people. There are countless books, magazines, and movies to prove that. But what does it mean to you? What is your idea of the perfect relationship? Is there even such a thing? And why is there so much pain in so many relationships?

Perfection and pain are all about perspective. In most of the relationships we have, we are unconsciously seeking fulfillment from outside of ourselves. But that’s not what relationships and love are all about.

What Is Love?
Love isn’t something you do or something you make. It is about acceptance and seeing the divine in ourselves and our partner. It is a way of being and living life. The truth I know about relationships is that the times we get hurt are the times we give away our power.

Relationship Insight #1 – Master Self-Love
Before you can love someone else, you must first love yourself. And self-love has to do with knowing who you are. It’s about knowing that you are more than just your physical presence. That’s only one aspect of us. We have a body, mind and a soul that is the expression of the infinite. That soul is perfect. It is whole. It is complete. There is nothing missing.

When you realize that nothing is missing from who you are, you’ll realize how powerful you are. And when you start living in that power and being true to your soul, you will attract the friends and life partner that will support and grow you as you create and live a purpose-filled life.


  1. What about my sins? I believe Jesus has paid for my sins by dying on the cross.
    Most churches preach and teach people can’t have a relationship with God outside of Jesus.
    I know God is Love and he created everyone.
    I believe I need Jesus for my salvation. But I also question what about others who are not in the Christian world? I believe God loves them too.
    There are so many thoughts and teachings coming up everyday. I just want to have relationship with God that is true and pleasing to Him.

    • I think you are coming into a place where your inner soul says wait a minute something is not right here. My perspective is this no one knows what is right for you right for you but you. There is an essence call it God that is not only within you but is you. Jesus said to go within, I come here so you can have life more abundantly, It is not I but the father within me, this I do and you can do and more, and it is done unto you as you believe. With these clear statements, Jesus outlined everything we need to know about living our life. It is time for you to discern how you want to live your life and trust the power within you to guide and direct you. Stop caring what others think. They have their journey and you have yours. Trust that the power within you knows the perfect way for you.

      In love,

      Rev. Lee

  2. I watched your video and it almost felt like a breath of fresh air or like smelling roses. I love Jesus Christ, He is my Lord and Saviour and we have a relationship. But I somehow feel and believe there’s more to Him and me, and others, and creation, than what I am taught to believe. I believe in love and I am love. Love is everything and I’m intentional about it. You speak about “frequency” Oh my, I started picking up on my frequencies very recently. I noticed I’m happier and life is just so joyous/easy when I’m listening and sharing with others. I also accepted myself as being unique and able, not too long ago, and it changed me. This is just amazing and I am open to learning more about my true Source, Our Father, Son and Holy Spirit, myself and how to be aligned with my purpose and live out destiny on earth.

    Thank you, I’m blessed.

Add a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *